Obligations. We all have them. Stuff you just have to do.
How you experience them is completely up to you.
Ugh. Why do I have to do this? I hate it. It’s not fair. It’s gonna be hard. And miserable. And I could be doing something else way more fun. It’s gonna suck.
Absolutely 100% you won’t be surprised. It sucks.
Well, I can just get this done. Not my favorite, but I’ll feel good when it’s done. Who knows, maybe I’ll learn something, or meet someone kinda interesting. No matter what, I’ll feel good about myself for following through. Maybe I’ll be surprised.
It won’t suck. You might be surprised. You’ll definitely feel good about yourself.
To paraphrase Henry Ford: whether you think it will suck or it won’t, you’re right.
Since it’s in your control, why not choose for it not to suck? Or go a little further – choose for it to be delightful and surprising.
It really is your choice.
And remember: in all things – progress, not perfection!
Love and light,
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